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Oct. 22nd, 2009

High Society

High Society is a musical remake of "The Philadelphia Story" and it's just a great movie. It's fun, romantic, and one of those movies that is just enjoyable to watch. I love a lot of the songs, a lot of the story, and much of the acting. Here are a few of my favorite scenes to get you hooked!



If you haven't heard this song before - you are in for a treat. I love Bing Crosby to begin with, and of course, Frank is my first love, but together they are a real hoot and treat! I think the humor of this scene is just hilarious and wish more drunkards would take up dueting. :)



If there ever were a song that I would have Frank Sinatra sing right to me - it would probably be this one. I love how he loves Grace Kelly's character and used to absolutely swoon when he sang to her. Who wouldn't want to be called "Sensational" by a man in love? Grace Kelly, in my opinion, is the most beautiful face in the world. I think she's an absolute stunner and few have compared.



And of course, you can't forget "Who wants to be a millionaire". It's just classic.

White Christmas

They don't make movies like they used to, that's for sure. My all-time favorite movie as a child and as an adult has remained "White Christmas". If you haven't seen it - go get it - it's something that shouldn't be missed. Here are a few of my favorite moments, and why.



Without giving away plot, this is one of my all-time favorite scenes from any movie. It's old-fashioned humor, and I laugh everytime I watch it. At the end of the song, Bing is outright laughing at Danny and the ridiculousness of the scene - he wanted it taken out of the scene, but they ended up leaving it in, and I admit that it's a personal favorite of mine. Tell me what you think!



One of my favorite songs of all time - it's so easy, so relaxed, and so romantic! I adore Danny Kaye and this is one of my favorite roles that he performed. For someone who isn't a dancer, I thought he really pulled it off, and I admit, that on more than one occasion, I wish that I was Vera.



This has to be one of the most romantic songs every performed on movie or television. It just oozes romance, it oozes sex appeal, and is just a wonderful number. I've often wanted to have a dress made in this exact style - I think it's sexy even in today's age. Thoughts?

Gravity

I have found that I have extremely high standards when it comes to finding something that moves me both emotionally and impresses me to the point of open-mouth awe. I find fault in many stories, plot holes, bad writing, bad characterization. I find fault in television in movies for the same reasons, with the addition of bad acting, over-acting, or wrong emphasis on important parts of speech and gesture. With music, I can hear "wrong" if it's done, and my praise is only mentally given if the person can pick up where they left off and continue as if nothing happened. In every day career/jobs, I expect at the very least, that person to excell in whatever job they are in. They can hate it all they want on the inside, but I expect professionalism and maturity and dedication.

Few things hit me just the right way that leave me in shock, awe, and desperation for more. Fewer things, it seems, as I get older. I've found that I cling to things that moved me in the past, things that continue to hold on to me for personal reasons, or other.

When I come across something that moves me, I can't get enough of it - it consumes me in a way, leaving it's mark on me so that I may grow and change, ever evolving, ever maturing, ever growing. Some things I find myself obsessing over, aren't particularly healthy. There are many things in this world that I wish I were more obsessed over.

Recently, I've become quite obsessed with a show "So you think you can dance". Music, dance, art - they have always been an interest of mine, so it's not much of a shocker that I found a show that expresses acting and music and dance all in one. There was a dance on last season's show that just jumped out and bit me and I found myself moved greatly.

The song is "Gravity" by Sarah Bareilles.



I love the way the dancers express "addiction". It's very real, it's very heartbreaking, it's very raw. I love especially that it can connect with so many things, such as drug and alchohol addiction, abusive relationships, depression, and every day hardships. Sometimes, people can't escape the hardships that life can throw at them, and this particular song and dance are a sad window into some people's realities.

From personal experience - I've been there. It took a long, long time to get out of it, but I did make it out. I believe that anyone and everyone in this place can and will overcome it. It will take time, it will be hard, and life will knock you down time and time again. But pray and keep faith in the Lord Jesus Christ and he will provide you comfort, you will be able to handle it and get past it. Just remember, He will never give you more than you can handle. It may feel like it, sometimes, but you will see - tomorrow will come and a new day is only the beginning to the rest of your life.

Much Love.

Halloween Gift for Infant

Halloween is right around the corner, and me, being a first-time parent, couldn't be more excited about dressing up Lee and gifting him with Halloween treats and knick-knacks. Unfortunately, Lee isn't old enough for candy (or real food for that matter), making all forms of edibles - unacceptable.

So I started thinking about what kinds of things I could get for him, and keeping it on the Halloween theme, I came up with this:

I found this pumpkin for a dollar at Wal-mart - I'm sure you've all seen them.



I couldn't figure out what to put inside - it was a real delima for me, as Lee is only 8 (almost 9) months old, and really...there is a lot of hands-off things at this age. But I came across these in Target, and knew that they would be perfect.



I admit that they were a bit more pricy than I wanted to spend, $30 bucks for the set of lettered blocks, but he's had it a week and has gotten more play out of these small blocks than any other of his toys. He even stopped playing with his water-bottle for two whole days, he was so fascinated by these blocks.

The blocks are clear and plastic and have little knick-knacks that jingle, smash, crank, and make noise when you shake them, and Lee loves peering into the middle of each block to try and figure out what is inside. All 26 blocks managed to fit inside my pumpkin, and Lee's new favorite game is to take all of the blocks out of the pumpkin and then put them back in.

I was thrilled to find a present that was both age appropriate and fun for him. He loves it and I couldn't be more pleased.

Oct. 20th, 2009

Bullfrogs and Butterflies

Bullfrogs and Butterflies is a wonderful CD for young children and babies. It's Christian based, and very uplifting. All kinds of different music and storytelling can be found, and even parents can find themselves taping their foot to the beat. I, in fact, found myself dancing around the kitchen to the songs while preparing Lee's lunch. I just got mine in the mail today and I am SO happy I ordered the "God is my Friend" and "God is Great" collection. I recommend the "Bullfrogs and Butterflies: God is my Friend" above the others, simply because the songs are just exceptionally catchy and I just love them.



I grew up with my sister listening and singing these songs and although they are almost 20 years, they are still the perfect songs for young children.

Has anyone else listened to these CD's? Do your kids love them?

Sep. 19th, 2009

The Shack

I had the chance to read this week, and must admit that I was blown away by “The Shack”. If you are a Christian, get your hands on this book. It is so amazing.

As soon as I finished, I handed it to my mother and she read it and now she is buying copies for her mother and sisters. I can’t even begin to tell you the emotional roller coaster I went through in reading it – I’m sure you can understand as you read it before me. I was a mess in reading it. What I loved the most (and there were numerous things) was the fact that everything was explained so well, and so easily. For the first time, I actually could put into words “The Trinity” and what it means to forgive and be forgiven. I love how “Papa” was explained, although I must admit that I can’t seem to call Him that. It’s too personal for me, to foreign, although I was humbled and infatuated with Papa as a woman and how the book went out of it’s way to not give gender to God. I love how the cabin was described, oh my goodness. I felt such comfort, such a “being at home” feeling, and yet, I was as much in awe and praise as Mack was. Jesus was just as I imagined, and let me tell you – the “Jesus, I thought you wouldn’t be so ugly” conversation had me rolling. I particularly fell in love with the “walking on water” and the 2 foot trout. The grief that Mack and Nan went through (although I was disappointed a bit by Nan’s quick exit home) after Missy’s death was hard to take. I had to stop several times and just breathe and calm down before picking the book up again and continuing. The horror, the terror, the not knowning…I can’t imagine ever going through something like that, and I will pray every day not to ever experience anything like it. I felt for Mack, like he was a real person. I cried with him, especially when the two men held him up as he identified Missy’s red dress in the cabin.

The description of how the cabin changed – I felt almost like I had stepped into “Bambi” for a few minutes, but was blown away by the images presented. I love how I could almost feel the hugs and smell the cooking. I loved how Papa and Jesus and Sarayu were described. I was particularly fond of how the Holy Spirit in person was described. I could simply see her in my head and imagine her, and it was the first time for me to ever do so.

I loved Papa’s gift of “fixing Mack’s eyes”. I found his interpretation of what Heaven is like to be fascinating and I was compelled to read more with each page turn. Missy looking through the waterfall made me burst into tears. It was so difficult emotionally to read and I could hardly make it through, and yet, when it was over, I felt drained and healed, and was able to let go some of the horror.

The analogies, the metaphors, and the interpretations of this book are the best I’ve ever read of what it means to follow Christ, and to understand the Bible’s main points in how to be saved, forgiven, and follow. I am so pleased with you sharing it with me – I can only give you a heartfelt thank you. I sincerely fell in love with this book and would never have even picked it up if you hadn’t recommended it to me.

There was one or two bits in the story that I didn’t quite understand or necessarily agree with and I wanted your opinion on them. The first being where Jesus is explaining in a somewhat joking manner that “he isn’t a Christian” and soforth. Do you recall that conversation? What did you take of it? The second being the part where the author wrote in about Jesus kissing the male version of Papa on the lips. I just didn’t understand why that was there, or why the author felt that it was necessary. Do you think he did this so that homosexuals would feel understood in the story as well? I just felt a bit put off, and couldn’t quite put my finger on why that particular description was necessary. Why didn’t the author just say “and Jesus kissed Papa”, which would have allowed the reader to choose where in their head…but no. He purposely wrote “kissed on the lips” and so I wondered.

I would very much like to know your feelings on the book if you've read it. I did find myself double checking after I’d finished to see if the entire story was fiction or a real representation of someone’s story. I wish we all had a friend like Willie. I wish we could all experience a weekend like Mack did in the cabin. I was shocked and dismayed at Mack’s car accident. I still don’t know quite what to make of it. I admit that I still held on belief that Missy was still alive until the very end where they found her body and I was forced to believe that she was dead.

I've never had an experience like this one in just reading a book. I felt as if I were there, as if I were Mack and experiencing everything he did. It hurt me in my heart as if the pain of what was happening was really happening to me. The amazement, disbelief, and awe he experienced in the cabin - I felt right along with him.

Meeting the Judge was one of the hardest things I've ever read and it was because it was all so true.

This fictional story takes our relationship with Jesus Christ and puts it into realization so that we might finally be able to put that relationship into words. Everything was so clear after reading this - after I was able to take it all in. In one sitting, it is overwhelming to try and read and emotionally seep everything. At times, you are simply treading water to just stay afloat.

Read it. You will thank me.

Janette Oke

Janette Oke has been a favorite author of mine for some time. She writes Christian books set in the past. Usually, they are more about the main character finding themselves as well as finding romance and learning to live in that relationship with someone else, in Christ. The Canadian West series is one that I have read over and over and never seem to tire of it, it's message, or it's story.

1. When Calls the Heart, 1983
2. When Comes the Spring, 1985
3. When Breaks the Dawn, 1985
4. When Hope Springs New, 1986
5. Beyond the Gathering Storm, 1999
6. When Tomorrow Comes, 2000

I do prefer the first 4, as they are seemingly one story in four parts. The 5th and 6th books follow the lives of the next generation, and although they are in the same universe, are different characters and were never my favorite.

This series follows a man and a woman as they stumble through foolish mistakes and misunderstandings, yet find a depth of character and courage within themselves as their love deepens. I recommend this story to any wife or wife-to-be out there, as it deals with the issues in getting married, and the after - children, coping with loss and life and hardships, learning to talk to one another, and doing it all in Christ.


Another stand alone story that I fell in love with is "Roses for Mama". It is about a brother and sister who are left to raise their siblings, and the hardships in growing up and trying to move on with their lives and their individuality, while having to carry the burden of such a huge responsibility. How can you date and be a normal teenager, when you are having to work the farm and raise your siblings? When you are much to adult for your age, how do you even begin to relate to those around you of equal age? How do you not die from the despair of feeling left out, or left behind, when you are so far ahead of where you should be, as well as deal with the loss of your parents?

It's just a fantastic story that I can't recommend enough.

Many of Janette Oke stories are amazing - these just particularly stood out for me. They aren't difficult to read and if you like time period stories, with the highlight of the story ending in a kiss - these are the kind of stories for you.

Also - for those out there with teenage or soon to be teenage daughters - these are books that I highly recommend for them to read as well.

Skin and Bones

This has become one of my favorites songs as well as music videos. Musically, it is unique, creative, easy, jazzy, fantastically composed, and fun to listen to. Visually, I was in awe. I've not seen anything like this before - it was very creative, very unique, and I'm jealous I wasn't a part of it. This has inspired me a great deal. I hope you enjoy it as well as I did. It's sung by Charlene Kaye and Darron Criss.

Five in a Row

I have recently learned of a different approach to learning in a program called "Five in a Row". Well, it's not so much a program as just a different approach to reading and understanding and working with your kids. Here - the book explains it better than I could:

Right now I'm focusing on preparing for "Before Five in a Row" specialized for 2-4 year olds.

"What is Before Five in a Row? Let's begin with what it isn't. It isn't a curriculum. Neither is it an aggressive, academic training regimen designed to turn your pre-schooler into a scholastic super-achiever. It is a rich treasury of creative ideas designed to help you gently, consistently prepare your children for the life-long adventure of learning. For children ages two to four, Before Five in a Row is better than a curriculum!

The book is divided into two parts. The first section contains hundreds of simple ideas and activities developed around 24 of the finest books ever written for young children. You'll find delightful activities built around such wonderful classics as Jesse Bear, What Will you Wear?, The Runaway Bunny, The Carrot Seed, Corduroy, Caps for Sale, The ABC Bunny, The Snowy Day, Katy-No-Pocket, and Blueberries For Sal. Each unit provides creative ideas and enjoyable activities designed to cultivate intimacy with your child while building vital learning-readiness skills.

Part two of Before Five in a Row is a rich resource, filled with specific ideas designed to help you prepare children for learning through simple everday activities. You'll find ideas for bath time, bedtime, in the kitchen, at the grocery store and much more; information and inspiration to help you maximize these precious years and prepare your children for real learning!"

What I really love about this program is how it incorporates all aspects of "school" from one book. For example, just from the story "Jesse Bear, What will you wear?" there is the following segments of focus for learning:

Language Arts
Loving Relationships
Bible
Colors, Patterns, and Combinations
Fine Arts - Drama
Literature
Poetry and Art
"Can you Find" Searches
Recognizing patterns
Order
Details
Games to Play
Science
and Shapes

As Lee is only 7 months right now, I obviously haven't started this program, nor can I give an honest opinion of "how it worked for me" yet, but I can't wait to use this and implement it into our daily reading routine.

Aug. 31st, 2009

Manners by Munro Leaf

Manners Can Be Fun


How to Behave and Why


How to Speak Politely and Why


Brushing Your Teeth Can Be Fun


Reading Can Be Fun


All of these books, especially "Manners Can Be Fun" are an amazing series. Not only are they fun to read with your children (I recommend starting around the ages of 3-7) they teach valuable lessons. I grew up on these books and can't recommend them enough. They are not as popular in today's society and I'm so pleased that they've come back to print.

Here is some information copied from Amazon:

"If we want something
we
say
PLEASE
We say THANK YOU
if you help us or
give us something or
do things for us.
Before we leave the table
we ask if
we
may
be
excused.
And say THANK YOU
if we are told we may.

Continuing the success of How to Behave and Why-with hundreds of thousands of copies sold, 50,000 in the last year and a half alone!-comes another gem from the trove of Munro Leaf.

Considered his second most popular book, Manners Can Be Fun was first published in 1936 and is among Munro Leaf's acclaimed "Fun" series, which includes Grammar, Reading, and History. In his signature style of stick-figure illustrations and wholesome text, this charming guide, in which courtesy does not have to be a chore or a response to scolding, makes manners a delight to learn. With such characters as the Mefirsts and the Whineys, children can laugh while absorbing the elementary rules of thoughtfulness and etiquette. To listen, cooperate, act graciously, and share, among others, are invaluable lessons that should never be underestimated, and that help make happy, well-adjusted, and secure children who will one day grow up to be happy, well-adjusted, and secure adults."

My thoughts are this: You really can't go wrong in teaching your children manners, even if they seem a bit old fashioned. In today's society, we all need to focus more on teaching our children the little things, the important things, that help make us better people. If you've got children and would like to encourage manners - buy these books. You can't go wrong. The pictures are fun, the circumstances are funny, and the values and morals are explained in such a way that make them easy to comprehend. These books are definitely going to be on Lee's Christmas List.

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